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You sound like an excellent doctor. Thank you for seeing women and caring about our outcomes.

My poor daughter is a second-generation cesarean; my mother was told I was too enormous to birth normally. I was about 7lbs. I then had a primary section for a “huge” 8lb2oz baby. My VBAC with a larger baby helped, but didn’t heal those wounds.

I recently heard a lecture from Rachel Somerstein (author of a new book about cesarean) and comments from an OB followed. He was young, and reflected on the first half of his residency being spent doing sections; the second half “preventing” them. As if a cesarean were an inevitable or naturalistic outcome! He seemed to have no sense of irony.

In fact, there seems to be no sense of *shame* in deskilling among the younger generation of OBs, especially those who take to TikTok and Instagram; a sense of pride, in fact, that if the silly mother does not want to consent to major surgery for frank breech, for instance, she will simply have to go freebirth in a field somewhere because anyone who doesn’t believe in science deserves to have her baby die. The contempt is palpable, unfortunately. What I read here is your compassion. The world needs more of it.

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